Showing posts with label Christ's love. Show all posts
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Friday, June 9, 2023

Ten Questions to Diagnose Your Spiritual Health - Dr. Donald S. Whitney Study, Question 5

 

“Ten Questions to Diagnose Your Spiritual Health,” Donald S. Whitney. 2001. NavPress
Question 5:  Do You Have a Growing Concern for the Spiritual and Temporal Needs of Others? (Notes, Excerpts and Highlights from Chapter 5)

Some may ask “what does this have to do with being spiritually healthy? Besides, isn’t having growing concern for the spiritual needs of others what priests and elders are supposed to do?” 

Although at one time it was not the case, in the last decade or two, some persons who are members of denominations that are more conservative find that financially supporting Christian charities is the answer to Question 5. And they need it. Recent reports show that financial contributions to charities are down – when so much help is needed most – due to the changes emanating from the U.S. 2017 tax law, which significantly impacted lower and middle class taxpayers by essentially eliminating charity deductions. The deductions allowed for a better return on taxes, which money became a donation vehicle to continue supporting multiple charities. It always has, but now more than before, it requires more faith and reliance on God’s provision to maintain or at least approach the levels of giving in light of the diminishing returns that previously helped to supplement sacrificial giving.  

But, even so, is financial giving the end all and be all of meeting temporal needs? One theologian opined that this is where our gospel practice falls short, and actually wrote a book on this topic entitled, “The Hole in Our Gospel.” There are parts of Christendom for whom direct engagement with the community is less popular than providing funds or supplies to the charities within the communities and parishes of their church building. Yet, how else will we show visibly who we are and whose we are?  

The Church – the universal body of Christ – during its earlier days was distinctive in doing just that. Even though it was dangerous in some places to openly worship and be identified with Christ, nevertheless, note this observation by Greek philosopher Aristides, who became Christian, when defending the Christian faith: “They love one another. The widow’s needs are not ignored, and they rescue the orphan from the person who does him violence. He who has gives to him who has not, ungrudgingly and without boasting.” In the early Church, members of local assemblies or congregations or local churches made as a part of how they worshiped God and imitated Christ the ministry of sharing to meet the needs of others as seen in Acts 4:32-35. The increasing size of The Church in those earliest years would require a more structured assurance of care and charity to be instituted per Acts 6:1-7, to ensure that meeting the temporal needs of others was to be the norm. In that earliest time, a cadre of believers, under the direction of the apostles, formed the first formal group of the Church’s social ministry overseen by faithful and ardent believers who would come to be recognized as deacons; this motif would be replicated in other local churches as the gospel continued to reach others. But that approach did not rule out anyone else – even preachers and elders – from showing the same concern. (see Paul’s report at Galatians 2:9-10) James, noted leader of the first century Church and brother of the Lord, would be inspired to write in his letter at chapter 1, verses 22 and 27: “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” For some centuries after the apostles went on to be with Jesus, The Church was the primary source of organized hands-on charitable programs within their communities – including supporting the establishment of or establishing its own hospitals and medical societies, widows and orphan charities and homes, and programs to address the needs of the poor.   

Within the last century or so (per my preliminary research), some of the societies became independent of the Church either due to lack of funding or lack of consistent assistance and hands-on support from members and worship communities for whatever reason. Yet, there are still denominations whose members provide either financially, hands-on (or both) support to the charitable work in the communities through organizations like Daughters of the King, Catholic Charities, United Methodist Committee on Relief (UMCOR), Islamic Relief and Jewish Coalition for Relief (JCR), National Episcopal Church Women, Episcopal Development, the Protestant Church’s Salvation Army, Baptist Charities, to name a few. Smaller churches in smaller communities may also cooperate in ecumenical or interfaith activities for the purpose of providing hands-on charitable help and disaster relief. Recent studies show, per the author that, nevertheless, evangelicals as a whole typically tend to put more time, money, and prayers into labors of missions and evangelism than in social ministries. Sometimes, he notes, just the opposite happens – more concern is shown for physical and material needs, while the gospel goes unshared. James, again, writing to the Jewish people in the Diaspora as brothers and sisters: “If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, ‘Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,’ but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit?” In other words, sharing the gospel -- written or oral -- without meeting an urgent physical need profits no one, especially the one on the receiving end. Preaching to persons who haven’t eaten much of anything for days and expecting from them a focused response to your sermon, or even worse, telling them that if they sit still for a sermon or become a member of that church then you will be rewarded with a meal or help, is a form of extortion and does not match up with how Jesus served those who came to Him.  

The author of “Ten Questions” states: “Christianity is a religion of concern for others.” When this book was published, it was said that, of all the religions of the world, Christianity has no parallel when it comes to demonstrating concern for people and for their needs.[i] When we look at the accounts of Jesus’ ministry to the crowds, we read stories like the one at Mark 6:34-44. His preaching was feeding their souls and His grace fed their bellies. Look also at how Jesus responds to others who were not necessarily committed to Him, but who were created by Him: Luke 7:1-15 

Followers of Christ know the words of Jesus in describing His greater mission in the Incarnation: “I have come that they may have life.” His primary concern was the permanent healing and restoration that could only be accomplished through Him providing Himself as a perfect sacrifice to redeem the lives of those lost due to the “sin estate” inherited from Adam. And we, His followers, are to have the same concern for those enslaved by sin, whether they know they are or not, by sharing compassion and kindness through the gospel transformation of our own hearts and soul. There is hurt in every heart and home (a saying is that if we live long enough, we’ll see or experience several hurts, and even grief).  

Putting on the “gospel lenses” of Christ, notes Mr. Whitney, we have the opportunity to look around us – in our neighborhoods, workplace, our classrooms, our church, our families, with the filter of “What are his/her/their spiritual needs?” Then, “What are his/her/their temporal needs?” By looking with these filters, we may be able to see the needs with sharper focus, and which – by God’s grace and our willingness – we may be able to address or meet. We must individually and corporately ask God, “What can we do?” Sometimes the needs are very obvious – people who need yard work done, transportation to doctor’s appointments and shopping, snow removal, meals, and who would benefit from a call where you may share Bible readings with one another, or when it is safe, to bring communion to shut-ins, or – like in our worship community – to take the communion sets to shut-ins so that they may participate in Holy Communion during the remote service. Or the needs may be “invisible”; as we continue to offer ourselves to God to be Christ for others, God will direct us to those who need to hear from or be helped by us. Do not sit passively waiting for someone to ask us to help in a ministry or to support efforts to help others within the greater community of the church’s building. As we grow more like Jesus, we will see ministry to temporal needs not as competing with but as complementing, the meeting of spiritual needs! No one indwelt by the Holy Spirit can remain unfeeling towards either the temporal or spiritual needs of others. Therefore, as persons indwelt by God’s Spirit, desire deeply to be more Christ-like in this area of our lives. One of the things we will experience is an incomparable soul joy and assurance that we have been Christ to someone. As is recorded at Matthew 25:31-46, with our gospel lenses, let us look for Christ in others and ask God to direct us to help others through His enabling power in us. 

*The foregoing represents my personal reflections on a study by Dr. Donald S. Whitney, Ten Questions to Diagnose Your Spiritual Health. (2001. By Donald S. Whitney. NAVPRESS. ISBN 978-1-61747-187-2) Quotations and excerpts are from that source, unless otherwise identified. For the 2023 Lenten season I provided these thoughts to my local congregation's Bible study group. The questions are not, however, constrained by a particular liturgical season, holiday, or age group: these are questions every Christian may find useful in fulfilling God's command at 2 Corinthians 13:5, "Examine yourselves to see whether you are living in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not realize that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless, indeed, you fail to meet the test!" The church at Corinth looked a lot like many of our churches today. 

 



[i] The author, Mr. Whitney, includes in this chapter examples of “need-meeters” that included the Swiss reformer Huldreich (Ulrich) Zwingli who worked to turn monasteries into orphanages in the 16th century; George Whitefield, who in the 18th century devoted much of his income to the development of an orphanage in colonial Georgia, and William Wilberforce in the late 18th to early 19th century who persevered for decades in the British Parliament to begin the modern movement to end slavery. William Carey, an English missionary in the late 18th to early 19th centuries, was responsible for outlawing the centuries-old practices of child sacrifice and widow burning in India. George Muller in the 19th century, who was a great champion of prayer and faith, recorded more than 50,000 specific answers to prayer in his journals, which focused on glorifying God by providing the means to feed, clothe, house, and educate up to 2,000 orphans in Bristol, England. “The Lord was pleased to channel tens of millions of dollars through Muller’s hands, though he never made known his own needs to anyone but God. Charles H. Spurgeon, also 19th century, built more than 17 homes for elderly widows and an orphanage for hundreds of children of all races and backgrounds, and eventually started and/or presided over 66 ministry organizations which served the poorer parts of London – many of which were funded directly by Spurgeon. 

Mr. Whitney states that the missionary work by Christians will most often include not only teaching the gospel but also living the gospel by establishing medical, educational and relief for the poor.

Well-known organizations of today that benefit from the models set through the persons mentioned above include: World Vision, Food For The Poor, Doctors Without Borders and Mercy Ships, Compassion International, Catholic Relief Services, the United Methodist Comm. On Relief, the International Fellowship of Christians and Jews, Samaritan’s Purse, and locally, Central Union Mission.

 

Monday, June 5, 2023

 

Ten Questions to Diagnose Your Spiritual Health, Donald S. Whitney.*
Question 3 – Are You More Loving?

As written at John 13:34-35, Jesus said that love is the clearest mark of a Christian. “By this all will know you are my disciples.” The author states that if we are growing in our love for others – especially in our love for Christians – then we are growing as a Christian.

The chapter offers a number of scriptures on the importance of love being the mark of Christians that are worth meditating upon:

·       John 15:12,17;

·       Romans 12:10, 13:8;

·       1 Corinthians 16:14; Galatians 5:14; Ephesians 5:2

·       1 Thessalonians 4:9; Hebrews 10:24, 13:1

·       James 2:8; 1 Peter 1:22, 4:8

·       1 John 3:11,23; 1 John 4:21; 2 John 5

Love is the badge and character of Christianity; without growth in the most important Christian distinctive – love – then we are “nothing”. (1 Corinthians 13:1-3)

When love grows colder, our sin increasingly manifests itself and we look more unlike Jesus. We lose patience, we are prone to be unkind, envious of others; when we are challenged about our lack of love, we quickly list all of the personal sacrifices and other proofs of our love (1 Corinthians 13:4). As our hearts harden or we become bitter, we become less courteous, we begin to look at our “rights” as more important than others’ and their needs, we are more easily angered, and more inclined to find fault in others, keeping score of their offenses (1 Corinthians 13:5).

So what kind of love are we to have? The author picks a scenario of loving family – nothing means more to them than their children; loving family means spending holidays together, sharing meals and other acts of intimacy; loving friends means being devoted to one another, and as the family circle and friendships grow, our love grows as well – correct?

The author answers: The Bible alone – not our own hearts – should be our standard both to define love and to describe it in practice (compare Jeremiah 17:9). We often classify as love what the King James Version of the Bible calls “natural affection (Romans 1:31 and 2 Timothy 3:3 KJV). In normal circumstances, parents love their children, family members love each other, and people love their friends and are good neighbors; this is true of both Christians and non-Christians. This is because God made humankind in such a way as to be able to naturally love certain people. Sometimes it seems to us that true love is at its height when we find others attractive and they are pleasing to us. Yet our love and happiness is regulated by whether the person continues to please us. There is also a “quid pro quo” kind of love. When our love is reciprocated, then, surely, that is true love, right? Yet with all of the emotion that may be expressed in those kinds of love, we cannot measure our growth in Christlikeness by these kinds of love.

The Greek language has different words for different kinds of “love” illustrated in part above: philia – deep friendship; eros – a romantic or carnal love; ludus – playful love; pragma – a longstanding affection; storge – a familial love; philautia – love of self; and agapé love – sacrificial love. Jesus, during His humanity, would have had a storge love for his family, a philia love for His friends – natural affections. However, when He gave the command to love one another, the word for love that He uses is agapé – a sacrificial love. It was that kind of love that brought Him to earth and placed Him on the cross. He did not come just to heal short-lived bodies, but to save sinners who are held captive by sin and its resulting forever death. By Jesus’ death on the cross we experience the love of God unto eternal life. One of the most loving things we can do for anyone is to give them the words that can lead to immortality in a radiantly glorious body, to not just speak the words, but sacrificially do the deed (1 John 3:18).

Growing in love, becoming more loving, we will want to examine whether our agapé love for other Christians is growing stronger (1 John 3:14). Secondly, has our love for the lost grown? Jesus’ experience with the rich young ruler, allowing him to admit that despite all the ‘perfect’ keeping of the commandments, he fell short of loving God and loving others. Jesus did not compromise His salvation message—He made it clear that the man must first forsake his ‘god’ – i.e., his possessions, and put Christ first. The author poses questions (paraphrased): Do we share the gospel message with the lost in a way that they can hear it; do we season our message with the salt of love? The more we begin to look like Jesus, the more we manifest the fruit of the Spirit and the more loving we will be to everyone, even our ‘enemies’ (Luke 6:27,32) Thirdly, when we examine our love for family, do we see observable growth, or are we living like enemies with our family members? Do we use harsh, harmful words, do we belittle one another, do we beat on one another either physically or psychologically? Do we become easily offended or put off when we cannot have our way? Do we act with gratitude to one another, and would our family members readily say, without compulsion, that we love them more and more?

The Bible says that the motive of Christian love at its best includes something that nonbelievers are incapable of knowing, as found at Romans 5:5, which tells us that “the love of God has been poured out into our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” Love begins with God; to love like Christ is to reverse every instinct in our fallen natures. The author, quoting Maurice Roberts in his article “The Supreme Grace of Christian Love,” published in The Banner of Truth, February 1989, relates that true Christlike love is against the grain of nature. Under the amazing power of grace in us through the Spirit, what our humanity cannot do, true Christians must do. Mr. Roberts notes in his article that he’s known Christians for whom the emphasis of their lives is growing in orthodoxy and knowledge; love is only relative. He further says that while God’s love is a gift to us through the Holy Spirit, it is not a spiritual gift like the gifts described in Romans 12 and Ephesians 4 – given to some and not to others. All true Christians receive God’s gift of love; we are accountable to Him in how we use it and grow in it. Do we pursue being more loving (1 John 4:8), meditating on this gift of God described in the scriptures noted above and any others we may find in the Bible on God’s love? Do we love like our Father loves? Does our love look like we belong to God the Father? Do we delight in imitating God (1 John 4:7; Ephesians 5:1-2)? Are we willing to identify those relationships where we most need to grow in love and to take the initiative in showing love in those relationships, not expecting anything in return? If we are choosing to imitate Christ, then we must be the initiator. Jesus did that.

*The foregoing represents my personal reflections on a study by Dr. Donald S. Whitney, Ten Questions to Diagnose Your Spiritual Health. (2001. By Donald S. Whitney. NAVPRESS. ISBN 978-1-61747-187-2) Quotations and excerpts are from that source, unless otherwise identified. For the 2023 Lenten season I provided these thoughts to my local congregation's Bible study group. The questions are not, however, constrained by a particular liturgical season, holiday, or age group: these are questions every Christian may find useful in fulfilling God's command at 2 Corinthians 13:5, "Examine yourselves to see whether you are living in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not realize that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless, indeed, you fail to meet the test!" The church at Corinth looked a lot like many of our churches today.